Boys Who Fear Toys! – By Katy Hudd

So I hear time and time again, that men feel ‘threatened’ by sex toys and the question is why, and does this include feeling threatened by the pink and sparkly ones too? Sex is about having fun, trying new things and most importantly enjoying it. But sometimes suggesting using a toy is like bringing an uninvited guest to the party! Do men feel that they should be the only one’s giving you pleasure? Or that you are just making it clear they don’t satisfy you and aren’t really needed? In fact it is more about experiencing a different kind of pleasure and excitement, not just for you but him as well. Then of course there is the competition aspect of it, you know, whoever makes you orgasm first wins a prize!

So is this really more to do with insecurities? The fact that they feel they just can’t be as good as, or as big as, or even as pink and sparkly as your toy? And they definitely won’t be able to fit neatly into your bedside cabinet! But this works both ways as no doubt many of us girls feel we could never compete with the perfectly tanned and toned girls in playboy, the ‘beautiful’ busty girls that are in every lads mags and on TV.

What I would say to any men who do feel threatened is honestly there is no reason to be. No matter how good a toy is, it will never be better than the intimacy and affection you share with your partner, but it can be a hell of a bonus! There are so many different types of toys you can try, you are sure to find something which both you and your partner like and feel comfortable using. For those of you who really do like to be the one giving the pleasure and in control, then you might want to try some sexy vibrating knickers, which come with a remote control! And as an added bonus all Rabbit Den members can get 10% off when you buy them here:

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So go on and be a devil

--Katy